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I've got to the growing confidence stage. I don't make Peter go and play pool now, he is allowed to watch TV down stairs whilst Carl and i fuck. My boyfriend is bigger than my husband so there's no doubt who would win in a scrap. Carl likes dominating Peter this way, having him nearby and I'm surprised by how sexy that feels for me too.
That's the thing really isn't it! Our confidence is all to do with the men working ou their relationship. Once one has submitted openly to the other, you can fuck and date and talk more openly. Inequality is the key. You prefer one of them, sexually I mean, and if they work with that, then you can relax and enjoy the sex. Ruth
Thanks Ruth- I feel that way too. Carl talks dirty as well as fucks brilliantly and there will come a day when he makes Peter suck his cock. He is very dominant, but I think I have to go slow. Much as I want to see Peter kneel and suck, I have to get used to how that would make me feel about myself. I want to go on holiday with Carl, to go out with both guys and feel people watch and wonder about us, but this is so strange, so elemental somehow, so it does take time! I'm called Ellie by the way. How delicious to find that husbands accept all this!
Ellie, I think its awesome when an emotionally intelligent as well as physically imposing bull directs a husband. I know that we must rule the roost too, but watching the alpha male make the beta male submit to you is really titillating. You want to video it, to get the words said as well as the action. Have you got past all that nice girls' don't do this stuff? It seems so impolite to demand, but once I saw how eagerly Ken sets too licking me clean that worry has disappeared! I'm inclined to believe that it is instinctive for us to dominate weaker men, I think we did do so ages back (Clan of the Cave Bear time). But women have had instinct socialised out of them; you don't need it dear because women are meant to be ornamental, certainly not competitive.' LOL Ruth
I wonder if the question, what stage are you at, suggests that we are meant to have a husband watch us fuck eventually? Well that isn't for me, even though I accept lots of women do. I'm going with Nigel's younger brother Edward and whilst my husband is used to seeing his younger brother always get the girl he wants, i still feel a bit funny about it. Edward fucked me when we went on holiday together. Nigel sensed it immediately and Ed and i have been fucking ever since. its just a quietly accepted thing. Nadia
Nadia, I wonder if you talk about this with Nigel, whether you taunt the guy? He might not get to watch his brother fuck you, but he might have to be reminded that you have chosen the other bloke! My interest in this is quite personal. I have an older brother called Ben who is the apple of our parents eye, who did all the great things at college and who built a business and drives a Porsche (you get the picture). I'm seen as the 'so so' brother. I'm feeling insecure right now because Carol my wife goes on about how successful Ben is. Carol and i have been playing with the cuck lifestyle idea, fantasising in bed. We imagined a guy coming by the house, locking me in the coal cellar and fucking her up on the bed. I was licking her pussy as we talked and when she orgasmed she definitely exclaimed 'God Ben!'. I want to be cucked by I hate the idea of your situation (sorry). Carol won't apologise for what she said, she admits to fancying Ben rotten, so any insights are very helpful. Hope you come by and answer this. Malcolm.
Hi Malcolm, Thanks for sharing. There probably aren't too many people in this situation where the bull is a brother. I do taunt Nigel and struggle with my feelings of contempt for him. Its as if i'm pre programmed to do it, to belittle his manhood. Its not rationale, its unkind, but once the fucking starts the comparisons seem insistent. We pretend to the world outside this isn't happening. The guy's parents would be appalled if they knew, but Nigel knows. His brother fucks me now and he is sorting out his personal salvation.I think that you have to resign yourself to the Ben and Carol thing. Consider, through your games Carol knows that you are submissive and she already sees Ben as more masculine. Every time she dresses it will be for him, there will be a thousand little gestures, words, body language that says 'I am yours to fuck anytime'. I would say its better then to be bold, and say that you will defer to Ben if she promises not to leave you. Submit to the inevitable..I think she will remember your humility. It will then rage through a passionate few months whilst she gets it out of her system and realises that she is happy to cuck you with other men, or else she will settle down with Ben and you will pretend long term. Either way, she will be much more content. Consider..life now, with you hasn't always been that fulfilling has it? She wouldn't want other cock if yours was all that was required. That's the reality, we cuck men looking for better. Nadia
Sometimes, and perhaps if you've all drunk a little too much, long after the cucking started, the activities can become much more public. I once went to a party where there were three other wives, all owned by black guys. It was a like a black dudes convention. Gerald my husband came along on this occasion and after my boyfriend Lewis fucked me in public, my husband was made to kneel and lick me out in front of the other party goers too. The other girls were taking cock that way, it was a norm and there were other husbands kneeling before their mistresses. All I can say is that whilst this is a hundred miles from first and private sex, it is deeply arousing. Lifting your skirt hem for your man, pushing your husband's head down there afterwards says volumes about how you have changed. Alexis